Article: A Little Less Hate

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Love must be sincere. Hate what is evil; cling to what is good. Romans 12:9

Words to live by from Saint Paul.

It is good to authentically and deeply love others.

It is commendable to cling to what is good and who is good in this life.

Even hating the evil in this life can be the right thing to do if we are spiritually clear about what evil is. Not everyone has spiritual clarity.

Hating others… is evil. Hating evil stuff that happens is not.

If you think someone is evil, you feel justified in hating them. I have seen a lot of focused hate on both candidates running for president this year. I have seen how both are labeled as evil.

Let me be clear, not everyone you hate is evil.

Second, your hate does not affect them in any way, shape or form. Hate affects you. That’s right, your hate is a boomerang that comes back to you.

A person reaps what they sow. Galatians 6:7b

Your hate affects the quality of your relationship with others. Your hate affects your relationship with Jesus. Your hate taints everything in your life.

Simply put hate is bad for you.

Hate is not only a spiritual issue. Medically, hate is not good for you either.

According to Dr. Rohini Radhakrishnan,  “Hatred negatively impacts the nervous system, immune system, and endocrine system. Extreme emotions trigger the release of stress hormones in the brain. Over time, these stress hormones lead to increased inflammation throughout the body, resulting in significant health consequences. The more intense an emotion becomes, the more physically demanding it is to contain it.

The opposite of hate is often considered love, but this is not true. Opposite of hate is mental and emotional detachment. Hatred creates an attachment to the thing or person hated the most. Hatred is an intense repulsion. Hatred falsely inflates the ego and makes one feel very superior and self-righteous against the thing or person who is hated, which only results in more pain.”

(Dr. Rohini Radhakrishnan, ENT, Head and Neck Surgeon, Reviewed by: Dr. Shaziya Allarakha, MD)

From a medical and physiological standpoint love is NOT the antithesis of hate. To move beyond hate, one must let go of the thing or person they are hating, because there is an unhealthy attachment. Hate can become obsessive, because it is the only thing you think about. Hate creates tunnel vision.

Before you can move towards love, letting go of what you hate must come first.

One can love and support something without having to hate its counterpoint, unless it is actual evil. But that can be a slippery slope (see my comments above).

As for me, I pity hateful people. I have no room in my life it. As the senior pastor of CLC, there is no room for hate in or around church.

I will be following Titus’ (found in the New Testament) instruction moving forward.

Warn a divisive person once, and then warn them a second time. After that, have nothing to do with them. You may be sure that such a person is warped and sinful; they are self-condemned. Titus 3:10-11

I don’t have the energy for hate anymore. I only have room for love.

God bless,
Pr. Ben

Article: Share Jesus

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Jesus loves everyone (period, end of sentence).

Jesus accepts and welcomes everyone who comes seeking connection (no exclusions apply).

Jesus freely absolves us from our brokenness, shortcomings and the dumb stuff we do (without guilt and shame).

Yet, most of the world doesn’t know this. Your neighbors do not know this. Your friends do not know this and some of your relatives do not know this.

Sure, they have heard of Jesus but he’s been portrayed as a judgmental, harsh and hateful. Most often this is reflected by a portion of Christianity that is judgmental, harsh and hateful.

We have been called to correct the record and show people the real Jesus… the One found in the Bible.

God’s heart seeks that which is lost (see Luke 15). Even 500 years before Jesus came to show us the most excellent way to live (see 1Corinithians 12:31b) God’s intentions were the same…

As surely as I live, declares the Sovereign Lord, I take no pleasure in the death of the wicked, but rather that they turn from their ways and live. Ezekiel 33:11

God wants us to live an abundant life and that is found in Jesus and His love (John 10:10).

Many of the choices we make (and the world makes) leads to pain, suffering and even spiritual isolation. In other words, death… just not in the physical sense of the word.

When you are walking “through the valley of the shadow of death” you hope there is something better ahead. There is. Better living is ahead and it is found in Jesus.

This message isn’t just for insiders like us. (If you are reading this, you are an insider.)

This good news is for the world (John 3:16).

Q: So, what is God’s plan to share the mercy, grace and love of Jesus with the world?
A: Simply put: us.

If we go back to Ezekiel 33 again, God says something very poignant to Ezekiel the prophet…

“Son of man, I have made you a watchman for the house of Israel; so hear the word I speak and give them warning from me. When I say to the wicked, ‘O wicked man, you will surely die,’ and you do not speak out to dissuade him from his ways, that wicked man will die for his sin, and I will hold you accountable for his blood. But if you do warn the wicked man to turn from his ways and he does not do so, he will die for his sin, but you will have saved yourself.” Ezekiel 33:7-9

We are our brother’s keeper. We have been entrusted to share the true message of God’s love found in Jesus Christ.

If we keep it to ourselves, what good is that message? I certainly do not want to be asked one day, “Why did you keep Jesus a secret from others?” Or “Why didn’t you speak up when you had a chance to share Jesus with a friend?”

Invite a F.R.A.N. to church. Invite a Friend, Relative, Acquaintance or Neighbor to church this weekend. You don’t need to convince them of anything. Leave that to me.

God bless,
Pastor Ben

Article: Your Reputation

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This past weekend, I shared a on message about Ruth, specifically chapter two of the book named after her in the Old Testament. A part of my sermon addressed our own personal reputations.

I asked this question, What is your reputation? What are you known for? How would someone describe you?

Whether we like it or not, someone has been told something about you at some point in your life. That’s your reputation.

The good news is that you are totally in control of your own character from which reputations are forged.

Reputation Diagram Displaying Stature Trust And Credibility

In the Old Testament book of Ruth, we quickly learn that Ruth’s reputation was tied to what she did for her mother in-law Naomi and her hard work. People will tell others about how you treat people and what you do.

This is how it played out in Ruth chapter 2.

Boaz asked the foreman of his harvesters, “Whose young woman is that?”

The foreman replied, “She is the Moabitess who came back from Moab with Naomi. She said, ‘Please let me glean and gather among the sheaves behind the harvesters.’ She went into the field and has worked steadily from morning till now, except for a short rest in the shelter.” Ruth 2:5-6

Boaz wanted to know about Ruth (they had not met yet). The foreman tells Boaz everything he knows about her. Ruth’s reputation stems from her compassionate care for Naomi (Ruth’s mother in-law) including gathering food for their survival.

Like everyone in the world, your reputation precedes you.

King Solomon knew the value of having a “good name” in the community.

A good name is more desirable than great riches; to be esteemed is better than silver or gold. Proverbs 22:1

Why would Solomon write that?

Life is about relationships and not stuff. The meaning of life is not discovered in the accumulation of wealth. How you treat others matters more to God than what you possess.

A good reputation draws others close to you and relationships are deepened. We see that in Ruth’s story. It begins with her character and yours.

As much as we might want to be perfect, we occasionally do dumb stuff, and our reputations can take a hit.

Solomon speaks to this as well in Ecclesiastes.

As dead flies give perfume a bad smell, so a little folly outweighs wisdom and honor. Ecclesiastes 10:1

Those are the times we own our mistakes and ask for forgiveness. Often that is a time for repentance (change in behavior) so that mistake never happens again.

In my sermon, I said that there is great integrity in owning your own mistakes and moving forward. People will see that too and will admire you for it.

My caution to you would be to guard your heart moving forward because…

“A reputation once broken may possibly be repaired, but the world will always keep their eyes on the spot where the crack was.”  Bishop Joseph Hall

It may not be fair, but there is truth in those words. What should we do in those moments of brokenness? Scripture points the way…

Above all else, guard your heart, for it is the wellspring of life. Put away perversity from your mouth; keep corrupt talk far from your lips. Let your eyes look straight ahead, fix your gaze directly before you. Make level paths for your feet and take only ways that are firm. Do not swerve to the right or the left; keep your foot from evil. Proverbs 4:23-27

Remember, someone is always watching.

Reach for Jesus and His wisdom… others will see that and follow you as you seek Jesus.

God bless,
Pr. Ben