Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, but in humility consider others better than yourselves. Each of you should look not only to your own interests, but also to the interests of others. Philippians 2:3-4
Some of us are really good at making snap judgments about other people. In the blink of an eye, we assess someone and decide if they are beneath us or someone we strive to be. Once we do that, we start to disdain others who don’t measure up to our standards or beliefs.
It feels like we are wired to establish a pecking order and where we fit into that order.
Societal rules quietly reinforce the notion that we are better than others.
This stands in stark contrast to our calling as people of faith and even how Jesus views us.
Christ could look down on us and view us as poor lost souls without any redeeming qualities. Instead, Jesus loves us, invites to be a part of his family, and then equips us serve others with the help of the Holy Spirit. Wow.
Rather than God looking down on us and shaking his head in disappointment, Jesus invites us in and tells us that we are siblings!
If God doesn’t look down on us why do that very thing to others?
Saint Paul reminds us to be humble. Humility is looking to God for all things and giving God all the credit (glory) for the good things in your life. When we look to God for all things, we are also acknowledging that God doesn’t negatively look down on us.
When we adopt a humble mindset, we treat others more equitably. We are less condescending and recognize the gifts and qualities that others bring to a situation.
Being humble also insulates you against being selfish and self-centered. Rather than always looking out for yourself, you keep others in mind and their needs.
The church (the family of God) is at its best when we care for and serve one another.
This is what happens when we hold others closely in care and kindness…
When we serve others in the church we are not only preparing “God’s people for works of service, so that the body of Christ may be built up until we all reach unity in the faith and in the knowledge of the Son of God and become mature, attaining to the whole measure of the fullness of Christ.” But the end result will be this… “Then we will no longer be infants, tossed back and forth by the waves, and blown here and there by every wind of teaching and by the cunning and craftiness humans in their deceitful scheming.” Ephesians 4:12-14
Our relationship with Jesus and our unity within the church insulates us from the hate and anger of this bitter world.
God bless you,
Pr. Ben